For each one: would you like this in your life, right now?
Answer honestly. A "no" is not a verdict on the thing itself — only on this season. Nothing here leaves the device unless you choose to compare with a partner.
Questions
- 01
Slow undressing, lights low, time as a non-issue.
- 02
Being read to in bed.
- 03
A long bath shared with no other agenda.
- 04
Hands in hair, neck, the small of the back.
- 05
Eye contact held a beat longer than is comfortable.
- 06
Saying the thing that's hardest to say, and being met.
- 07
Being told, specifically, what you are loved for.
- 08
A morning that begins with no urgency.
- 09
Inventing a rule for the night and following it together.
- 10
Dancing in the kitchen with the wrong music on.
- 11
A small dare exchanged in public.
- 12
Writing each other a note instead of saying it out loud.
- 13
Being told, gently, what to do next.
- 14
Being trusted to lead, with permission to be unsure.
- 15
Being held still while something soft happens.
- 16
Asking for what you want with no preamble.
- 17
Falling asleep mid-sentence, in contact.
- 18
Forehead to forehead, breathing in time.
- 19
Being looked after when you're tired.
- 20
A small, repeated phrase that only you two say.